Best Friends ARE for life. My definition of a best friend is one that exceeds all expectations of what a friend should be: loyal, a confidant, and above all, a person (or persons) with whom you can totally be yourself. There is never any (negative) judgement, never any false promises and never any let-downs. At least, none intentional.
I have two "best friends": my husband and an amazing woman who currently lives on the other side of the country from me.
My husband because hey, we're in it for life. I can be myself and then some around him. He's known me since before kids, and I love that he remembers that me, and still loves the woman I am now. He may not necessarily "get" everything about me, but he knows and accepts it all.
SJ, is my other best friend. She is a writer and we hooked up when both of us were only trying to get published (she's ridiculously more prolific and successful than I at this point, and I love her for this). In my "real" life, I am involved with many different groups of people, and behave accordingly. She is the only person (outside of family) who understands this about me. And knows all my secrets. And knows how I behave within all these groups. Beyond this, we have common interests--books, guys, kids, food--to name a few. I will admit, especially since she's hours away instead of just down the street, I may not be as on-point with staying in touch. But despite this, I know that as soon as we talk, it'll be like no time separated us at all.
I do have a bevy of friends in general, but not many at all who knows all parts of me. That's okay. I like to say I'm an extrovert, but I'm a closet introvert really. I'd much rather only a couple people know who I truly am, rather than the whole world.
If you want to see who other authors consider their best friend, check out the hop below. Have a great weekend while you're at it!
I like your definition of what a best friend is. I have an online friend that knows a whole lot more about me than my in person friends. It's great to have someone like that.ReplyDelete
It is, isn't it? Just that one person in whom you can tell anything, keeps us sane I do believe. Thanks for stopping by!ReplyDelete
It's nice when best friends last for a lifetime.ReplyDelete
There's no right or wrong way to be someone's best friend but being there (in person or online) is essential. Great post.ReplyDelete
My best bud and I tease and say we're stuck for life because we know each other's secrets. 😊 Ok, that's only one of the reasons!ReplyDelete
I've said that true friends pick up right where they left off, whether it's been ten years or ten hours:) And yes, a few of my BFFs know where the bodies are buried, so to speak, so HAVE to keep them close, lol!ReplyDelete
I think friendship is a personal thing. each is like a snowflake.. unique and beautifulReplyDelete